Supporting parents

Overview

It can be challenging when you have a parent with a mental health condition. Family relationships may be more stressful, and you may find that your parent is unable to be there for you when they are mentally unwell.

In some cases it can feel like there's a role reversal going on. You may be caring for your parent(s) and managing the house, either on your own or with your sibling(s). This can mean excess chores, cooking, shopping and housework, or even administering medication. You may be missing out on some of your own development, whether it's social time with friends, school activities, space for yourself, or emotional support.

If you have not told someone about your situation yet, reaching out for help can be a good first step in learning how to cope. Families in this situation benefit from having extra support – like counselling, and help from the community. There are support services and carer organisations that can help you and other family members handle difficult emotions and situations, extra housework, school or work responsibilities, and more.

It is important to look after yourself as well. The resources below have information and advice. We also have pages on support for carers and how to support someone.